Monday, September 10, 2012

Introduce Now or Later?

In Steve Harvey's book "Think like a man Act like a Lady" he states that one should introduce your children to a special male (or female ) in your life early in the the relationship. Others say that one sh
ould wait until they feel that the individual wants to be permanent. Which is right? Does either one guarantee success?
















Money or communication?

Some say money is the number one problem causing marraiges to fail. Others say communication. What do you say?

Monday, May 14, 2012

Woman in the Mirror! looking in the mirror can be a good or bad experience depending on how we view ourselves. If we feel good; we see all the positive. When we feel bad; we tend to see all the negative. It is not about everything going the way we want it that dictates how we see ourselves, but about how we handle or go about dealing with the obsticles placed in front of us each day of our lives. How do you view the woman in the mirror?
What makes you sexy! It would be so easy to just throw on some clothes and look pretty, but that is only a part of what needs to be done. Some would think that losing weight would be the answer. Attitiude is more important in creating an aura of sexiness and size or clothes that you wear. What do you think?

Monday, May 7, 2012


New Beginnings!

Many times in our lives we made decisions that will cause us challenges throughout our lives, decisions we made to soon.  Although if we had the chance to start over we would make a more informed decision. 
There have been difficult times in my walk because I have chosen to move too soon. It takes courage to reassess your decision and choose A NEW BEGINNING, but if you dare to discern these three steps: Right Place, Right Time and Right Approach it will ignite a new excitement as you pursue your goals and your destiny.

RIGHT PLACE

For me the right place was the church, for you it maybe on your job, in your home, in your community, in your organization but wherever that place is, it should speak to the fact that it is no longer acceptable to be stuck.

RIGHT TIME

For me the right time was twenty years ago.  Your time is now, if not now, when? Let nothing stop you from your goal. To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose. When is the right time for you to begin again?

RIGHT APPROACH

Once I knew where I was going, Once I knew when to start, and once I knew the right approach for me, nothing could stop me.  I did not ask for any favors. I did not try and take a short cut. I did not bully my way. I just walked in my purpose and never looked back.
I knew I could no longer be still. I could not remain voiceless. My family and I deserve a new beginning.  Look at yourself and see yourself in a new determination that brings new opportunities.